Wrestling with Pain, Prayer, and Scandalous Grace

Date: 3 April 2025

This week at FOB Truth, we leaned into some uncomfortable but life-giving truths. We read through the Psalms and faced the hard reality of suffering, the challenge of prayer, and the radical offense of God’s grace.


God Sees Our Pain

In Psalm 31, David is surrounded by fear, betrayal, and pressure. And yet, he declares: “I am always in Your care.”

Even when life feels like it’s falling apart, God sees, God hears, and God holds.

Praying for Ourselves Isn’t Selfish

Scripture shows people crying out to God for personal help over and over:

➡️ Faith doesn’t pretend it’s fine. Faith asks boldly.


The Glory of God

Glory means God’s worth and beauty put on display. It’s not vague or poetic—it’s real power, visible holiness, and undeniable presence. His glory is what changes people, places, and hearts.


Fruit of the Spirit

In Galatians 5:22–23, we’re reminded that love, joy, peace, and the rest are fruit, not effort.

They grow when we’re connected to the Spirit—not when we try to impress God.


Scandalous Grace

Grace isn’t safe. It forgives adulterers, thieves, prodigals, and persecutors. It says, “You don’t have to clean up before you come home.”

Examples:

Grace offends those who think they deserve something. It’s not fair. It’s better.


Restoration to the Church

Forgiveness requires repentance—Matthew 18:15–17.

But once someone turns, the church is commanded to welcome them fully. 2 Corinthians 2:6–8 warns us not to crush the repentant with shame but to restore them with love.


Does God Forgive Without Repentance?

No. Luke 13:3, Acts 3:19, and 1 John 1:9 are clear: forgiveness is offered to all, but received only by those who turn to Him. God’s grace isn’t automatic—it’s relational.


Forgiveness Without Repentance (On Our Side)

Even when someone won’t apologize or repent, Jesus calls us to forgive. Luke 23:34, Acts 7:60—both show forgiveness offered even when reconciliation wasn’t possible.

Forgiveness sets you free—even if they’re not ready to change.


If you missed this week’s session, go back and read Psalm 31. It’s raw, it’s real, and it ends with courage:

“Be strong, and let your heart take courage, all you who wait for the Lord!” (Psalm 31:24)

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